We drove up north a few weeks ago to see family and friends. I have done that for most of my life. As an adult, my husband and I lived in Michigan before coming home to Florida, so we have travelled back and forth from there many times in the last 10 years, but when I was 7, my family moved to Florida from Ohio. My dad was recently retired from the Air Force and my mom's arthritic knees really hated Ohio winters. And so began our annual trek back and forth between the two. There were some good things about our travels and some pretty bad ones, too.
Now mind you, this was in the 70's, so things were a bit different. The best part is that since my brothers were much older, they didn't come. So, I had the whole back seat of our Plymouth (and later Chevy Impala) all to myself. A huge expanse of real estate that was all mine. Seat belts? I don't think they existed in the backseat and if they did, I think they were crammed down under the seat. I could bring my pillow, stuffed animals, Barbie camper, and entire arts and crafts box and still have room to stretch out. Yes, I have 3 kids, and yes, they have NEVER been in a moving car in their lives while not buckled or 5-point-harness-strapped into a car seat, booster seat, or bucket seat, and I am eternally grateful that we have those safety items today to protect them, but, it sure was comfortable sprawled out on that seat. The most awesome thing of all was that every year my mom would buy me a giant, brand-spanking new activity pad. You know the kind. It had word searches, "stained glass" color by number sheets, pictures that were only half drawn so you had to finish the lines, the pictures that were mixed up little squares so you had to draw each box in the correct order to get a spectacular finished picture and my favorite, dot-to-dots. And then, oh yes, my friends, a brand new 64-count box of Crayola crayons. Heaven! As I got older and more "sophisticated," my favorite thing to bring was my trusty tape recorder, and plenty of C batteries. It was the size of a cement block (and weighed about that, too) and I became the most awesome mix master/DJ in the world, sticking the cassette player up on the huge ledge under the rear window and recording all my favorite songs. I loved Paul McCartney and Wings and I recorded "Silly Love Songs" over and over, one from a station in Georgia, another from a station in Kentucky, etcetera, and they all sounded like Sir Paul was singing from the bottom of a well...with sand in his mouth, and I thought it was totally awesome!
My dad, Mr. ex-military guy, was the only one who drove on our trips. He had a set schedule and we never deviated from it. We would leave Tampa at 7:30am and head up I-75 doing no more than 60 miles per hour, because in the early 70's that's pretty much where I-75 began. We would drive to the Florida Welcome Center at the border and stop for a picnic lunch and the mandatory free small glass of Florida orange juice. We had a cooler, so it was sandwiches, chips, and glasses of water at one of the roadside picnic tables. None of this fast food of today. I would run around and around the grassy area for a bit and then back into the car. We drove past Atlanta via the bypass the first day, reaching Dalton, GA about 5pm. We didn't stay at the exact same hotel each time, but they all were similar. They had an outdoor pool - score! They almost always had some kind of playground. My favorite had a jungle gym that looked like a giant rocket. It's not there anymore, I look each time we go through, but it looked like this one. We would get to go out to eat at either the restaurant at the hotel, or one nearby, usually a cafeteria or buffet-type like Denny's or Morrison's, which was also a real treat. I got to help dad fill up the cooler with ice from the ice machine - such fun! Then, back to the pool for a swim and lights out about 10pm, which was excitingly late for this little kid. The next day we'd pack up and get on the road into Tennessee before stopping for breakfast at a rest area. Breakfast was the best because I got to pick my own individual little box of cereal! You know the kind. The box was actually perforated down the center, so all you had to do was peel it back, cut the waxed paper bag inside, and then pour in the milk! Instant cereal bowl! What technology! The rest of the day would be spent driving through the mountains of Tennessee and Kentucky. I seem to remember a lot more scenic overlooks then than there are today on I-75. We would usually stop at one with picnic tables for lunch. There was usually a sheer drop off right there on the other side of the guardrail that you could lean over for a spectacular view. Now that I think about it, that's probably why they don't have those anymore... I liked driving along with sheer rock walls right beside us where they carved the road right through the mountains. Sometimes I would see little streams trickling down the rocks, and once I saw a huge stag standing on top of one of those rock walls watching traffic go by.
But, there were the downsides to traveling back then, too. It could be really hard to get radio stations along the way, no Pandora or Sirius back then, no outlet to plug in a Nintendo (hence the supply of extra C batteries). So, it was just me and my pre-vacation recorded tapes for long stretches. Our van today has a DVD player and CD player. It has 3 outlets to charge various "must-have" electronics. We did not buy our van for these. It just happened to come with them. My kids get to choose their own DVDs to bring along. It is usually the latest kid's movies du jour, but for whatever reason, every time, they insist on bringing "The Sound of Music." This summer on our trip to Michigan my kids brought all 8 Harry Potter movies...and "The Sound of Music." Do you find that weird? I love "The Sound of Music." We all know all the words to all the songs and we all sing along, in harmonies, I might add, and I am so happy they consistently pick a 4 hour movie, which eats up a lot of time stuck in the car, but I really don't know why this is always in our mix, but I digress.
Back to the downsides. I remember that a lot of rest areas back in the day had outhouses, not the air-conditioned snack-filled and gourmet coffee house luxury ones we have today. We were in one in Georgia this summer that had rocking chairs pulled up to a fireplace and there were dioramas of famous Civil War battles all around the room. Let's just say that in the middle of July you got in and out of those old ones as fast as possible. One thing that I hated was that we didn't have A/C in our car. So we cruised along with the windows open. Hmmm, that may be another contributing factor in the interesting quality of my tape recordings, now that I think about it. Driving with no A/C was fine except when it rained. My mom didn't like to drive, but she also wasn't a very patient passenger either, so when it rained she got pretty nervous. So, she would smoke... a lot. It was like a thick, gray cloud moved inside the car, and so it was a great relief for us to pass through the rain and be able to open the windows again. I think that is the #1 reason I have never touched a cigarette in my life.
But, for the most part, my annual summer trek up north holds good memories, and I think my kids enjoy the trips today, too. I bought them activity pads when they were little. They loved them, too. I even got them playing the license plate game this time around. We found 36 different state license plates, 3 Canadian provinces, and one from Mexico at our hotel parking lot in Kentucky, who I think was lost. Not bad for only traveling through 6 states. We also played the Alphabet game (looking at billboards and road signs and finding the alphabet in order - we are grateful for the abundance of Quality Inn and Zaxby's billboards today - makes finding Q, X, and Z a piece of cake). Maybe next year, I need to get us some individual boxes of cereal, a cooler of milk, and some spoons,too.
What about you? Tell me some of your favorite travel memories.
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Monday, July 8, 2013
Now what?
Well, here I am. I don't know exactly where "here" is, but it certainly isn't where I thought I would be right about now. I'm not sure where my path diverged from what I had planned for my life. I was envisioning me as Dorothy happily tripping down the lovely yellow brick road through the sunlit field of poppies with the spectacular Emerald City Library in front of me and forgot about the Wicked Witch and her flying monkeys. Dang! I've always been terrified of those monkeys - and, like Rudolph, the Humble Bumble, but that's for another time.
My library career goes way back - all the way to 3rd grade when I got to work in the school library hanging up the newspapers on those weird wooden poles with slits to hold each section of paper. I won the library helper of the year award in 9th grade and started getting PAID to work in the public library at age 16. You name a job in a library and I have done it - including shelving; fronting shelves and shelf reading - the most mind-numbing thing ever; repairing books that have been mangled, soaked with every liquid imaginable, chewed, and otherwise look like they have survived the apocalypse; checking in and out materials; reference - which is sometimes answering real questions and sometimes diplomatically showing students the materials they need to write their OWN term paper; running a department; running a branch; supervising staff and volunteers; being where the buck stops for customer complaints; reviewing some truly awfully written materials that publishers actually want to add to our collection; discarding moldy bug-infested donations tactfully; surviving summer after summer's worth of children's programming; cleaning up disgusting messes; dealing with the homeless, the people who bring me poisonous insects to identify (honest), and, bet you can't top this one, once finding a piece of fried chicken smashed into a book and replaced on the shelf.
The library has been my life for most of my life. I even met my husband at work - we were both shelvers at the same huge library. No, you will not find any chairs pushed out at our house, and yes, besides our books, our music and spices ARE in alphabetical order - as they should be. My children have attended storytime from birth and were all avid readers while still in preschool. Am I bragging? No, I just know how important it is to read to kids right from the get go. I have worked every day of the week and schedules from 7:30am until 9:30pm, missed church on Sunday mornings; countless kids' activities and birthday parties; favorite TV shows; going to the doctor, dentist, and vet; neglected the service times for my car, and never had a summer off all for my career in the library. For the past 25 years.
When I started this career, I loved it. I am a people person. I love helping people. I love reading to children. The neat freak in me does get all excited when the books are all fronted and are in perfect Dewey Decimal order. I love being able to order the books people really want. And I like (most) of the library regulars who come in week after week, either alone or faithfully bringing their kids to the library to read, for programs, or just hang out. Library people definitely are a certain breed - we're quirky, imaginative, demanding yet quite tolerant of new ideas, and not afraid of new technology. But, as time has gone by, I feel as if I just give and give and give all I've got, and the reward seems less and less and less. Budget cuts, fewer staff but more in your job description, more gaps in those folks who are tech-savvy and those who aren't yet still need to fill out a form to get food stamps online or look for a job or get tax help, and the completely non-parent-friendly schedules that we've always had in libraries, and it has taken a toll on me.
So, here I am 25 years later, after a year-long stint of taking time off to become full time caregiver to my Alzheimer's-stricken mother-in-law. We just moved her into a facility where she will get the added amount of care she now needs, and I need to get back to work. The last position I worked for had been filled - they obviously couldn't wait for me to come back at my convenience. So, the possibilities are now endless as to which library direction I should go. But, you know what? I have discovered that every time I look at the job listings for librarians (and not just public librarians, either), I have to pause as I read those job descriptions, and with each additional duty listed, I find myself getting more and more tired, drained, and exhausted. I've been there. I've done that. Many times. Am I qualified? Absolutely. Am I excited about applying? For the first time in a long time, the answer is no. I'm sick of the hours, the demands, the extra workloads, and, frankly, the pretty crummy pay that a person in a profession that requires a Masters Degree has always had to put up with.
So, I don't know what I will find out there. It is both terrifying and exciting to be starting over at this point in my life. I am leaning more toward researcher-type positions or perhaps working in the publishing industry - both still somewhat librarian-related, but not really. For now, I check the zillions of employment websites each day, and every once in a while something exciting catches my eye. Time will tell, and I will let you know. But, right now, my eyes are tired of staring at the computer screen - I think I'll head to the library and grab an old favorite. Agatha Christie? Elizabeth Peters? Hmm, maybe even a Nancy Drew.
My library career goes way back - all the way to 3rd grade when I got to work in the school library hanging up the newspapers on those weird wooden poles with slits to hold each section of paper. I won the library helper of the year award in 9th grade and started getting PAID to work in the public library at age 16. You name a job in a library and I have done it - including shelving; fronting shelves and shelf reading - the most mind-numbing thing ever; repairing books that have been mangled, soaked with every liquid imaginable, chewed, and otherwise look like they have survived the apocalypse; checking in and out materials; reference - which is sometimes answering real questions and sometimes diplomatically showing students the materials they need to write their OWN term paper; running a department; running a branch; supervising staff and volunteers; being where the buck stops for customer complaints; reviewing some truly awfully written materials that publishers actually want to add to our collection; discarding moldy bug-infested donations tactfully; surviving summer after summer's worth of children's programming; cleaning up disgusting messes; dealing with the homeless, the people who bring me poisonous insects to identify (honest), and, bet you can't top this one, once finding a piece of fried chicken smashed into a book and replaced on the shelf.
The library has been my life for most of my life. I even met my husband at work - we were both shelvers at the same huge library. No, you will not find any chairs pushed out at our house, and yes, besides our books, our music and spices ARE in alphabetical order - as they should be. My children have attended storytime from birth and were all avid readers while still in preschool. Am I bragging? No, I just know how important it is to read to kids right from the get go. I have worked every day of the week and schedules from 7:30am until 9:30pm, missed church on Sunday mornings; countless kids' activities and birthday parties; favorite TV shows; going to the doctor, dentist, and vet; neglected the service times for my car, and never had a summer off all for my career in the library. For the past 25 years.
When I started this career, I loved it. I am a people person. I love helping people. I love reading to children. The neat freak in me does get all excited when the books are all fronted and are in perfect Dewey Decimal order. I love being able to order the books people really want. And I like (most) of the library regulars who come in week after week, either alone or faithfully bringing their kids to the library to read, for programs, or just hang out. Library people definitely are a certain breed - we're quirky, imaginative, demanding yet quite tolerant of new ideas, and not afraid of new technology. But, as time has gone by, I feel as if I just give and give and give all I've got, and the reward seems less and less and less. Budget cuts, fewer staff but more in your job description, more gaps in those folks who are tech-savvy and those who aren't yet still need to fill out a form to get food stamps online or look for a job or get tax help, and the completely non-parent-friendly schedules that we've always had in libraries, and it has taken a toll on me.
So, here I am 25 years later, after a year-long stint of taking time off to become full time caregiver to my Alzheimer's-stricken mother-in-law. We just moved her into a facility where she will get the added amount of care she now needs, and I need to get back to work. The last position I worked for had been filled - they obviously couldn't wait for me to come back at my convenience. So, the possibilities are now endless as to which library direction I should go. But, you know what? I have discovered that every time I look at the job listings for librarians (and not just public librarians, either), I have to pause as I read those job descriptions, and with each additional duty listed, I find myself getting more and more tired, drained, and exhausted. I've been there. I've done that. Many times. Am I qualified? Absolutely. Am I excited about applying? For the first time in a long time, the answer is no. I'm sick of the hours, the demands, the extra workloads, and, frankly, the pretty crummy pay that a person in a profession that requires a Masters Degree has always had to put up with.
So, I don't know what I will find out there. It is both terrifying and exciting to be starting over at this point in my life. I am leaning more toward researcher-type positions or perhaps working in the publishing industry - both still somewhat librarian-related, but not really. For now, I check the zillions of employment websites each day, and every once in a while something exciting catches my eye. Time will tell, and I will let you know. But, right now, my eyes are tired of staring at the computer screen - I think I'll head to the library and grab an old favorite. Agatha Christie? Elizabeth Peters? Hmm, maybe even a Nancy Drew.
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